-Thursday, October 12, 2006
Cliques and Loners.
As we grow older, we see things in a different light, not due to the gradual loss of vision, but the gradual increase in maturity as we pass through time. Or maybe not. We might relish in the childhood behavior but in a physically mature body, which doesn't make sense at all.
As of yet, I believe that nothing in this world is absolute. Everything is very subjective, thus arguments are made forth so as to feed our hungry, curious minds. Different personalites will naturally form a clique, individual idealists stand alone. Instigation can always be found within a clique. When one doesn't like another, one would advocate and stir untrue facts about another within ones clique. Some cliques are good, some are bad. Yet again good and bad is very much subjective, but this is my perspective so it is already defined.
Cliques give you some form of belonging. Yes, it may be fun, there is unity among you and your mates, but what some people fail to see is, are their clique 'activities' necessary and acceptable? Some cliques sit the whole day and study, others might play sports, some may even base their jokes on another's flaws without looking at their own. I am 100% sure that no one would wanna be in the center of jokes and bitching or anything else. For the ten thousandth time, if you dont like people to bitch about you, then dont do it to others. Here's where the saying, ' do unto others what you want them to do unto you.' Don't whine like a big baby when some bitch speaks ill of you, and laugh your asses off when you bitch about others. Here, ' the pot calls the kettle black.' One amazing fact, is that when you're in a clique, say 10 people, you might feel that you have the support of 10000 people. Usually it is really false. Most of the time it gives you the added confidence you need from others. Sometimes I feel abit helpless when I see a person getting bullied by a whole bunch of people, for not being able to stand in the way, or usually, I never get to witness these incidents.
This issue has made itself clear in my life. In my life I see plenty of cliques. Mainly 2 types, Work and Play Clique, and the other is the Bully and Bitch Clique. I have nothing much to say about the former, but the latter is really disappointing. The latter usually consists of people who are so darn full of themselves like they've got plenty of air in their heads and bodies. I should get an iron bar and make it into a needle so I can prick their heads and let the air out. Okay, as a result of airy heads and false perspectives about themselves and others, they will jump to conclusions before you can bat your eyelids. Dumbasses. They usually fire blanks, and more blanks. Read the previous entires for firing blanks [: They always comment and comment and comment and comment and yeah. And bully and bully and bully and bully, they seem to have verbal diarrhoea. Need to formulate a pill for them. Once they open they cant close and they will be at it for the whole day. I dont see whats so interesting about getting some value of entertainment out of someone else's flaws, at the same time hurting others. Hello out there, please define what hurts and what doesnt. People who are victims, stand strong, as if you succumb to their words you are weak. Stand strong; affected be not by their words, for what they say are false.
I have been a victim of this eternal ramblings and all. I still am. I admit in the past I used to care alot about what others say, but now I see things in different light and sadly to say, I don't really give a damn and I despise those who continue to practice basing their jokes on another's flaws. Now I just tell myself over and over, when someone says something untrue about me like 'flirt' or whatsoever, I say. 'Thank you for testing my paitence. You have just raised my paitence level and my conscience is as white as snow.' Okay la maybe something shorter but similar. Try this, it will help.
As I proceed I'm walking into a narrower and narrower road, until one day I get used to it and will redefine the epitome of narrow, and wide. I believe that loners, have very unique personalites and I will always ask for their perception on something. They are usually throw aside as their ideas differ from the crowd. Who knows? Their ideas are far greater than others from what I've been through all the time. It is usually these people who travel far, than those who speak too much.
I'm rather beat now, bye.
Yeechien Wrote;
11:42 PM
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